Juliana Moves

2024 has been a year of fun and reflection. After the hellscape that was 2023 for me, I’ve been actively seeking our joy and fulfillment and meaning to my life outside of work. And in this process I can’t help but be struck by how simple that ought to be, but challenging nonetheless. I think we can all acknowledge and admit that American culture emphasizes the hustle and the importance of continuous vertical movement throughout our careers (hello, capitalism!). I think we also could all admit, albeit maybe more quietly, that it kind of sucks? 

Throughout my various jobs, I have been proud of the work I’ve done. After all, if I am going to sell my labor for 40 hours a week, I might as well find some satisfaction in it. But I’ve also allowed it to consume me and made my work the ultimate indicator of my life’s success and worth. Even writing that out makes me cringe because it’s so dumb and backwards, but damn is it prevalent in America – especially among my generation. 

At some point in our lives we’ve probably all encountered the quotes that are something like “no one will remember your job title at your funeral” or whatever. The song Cemetery by COIN also captures that nicely. And so throughout this year I’ve just tried to think about what I would want people to think about when they think of me. Sure, maybe I’m good at my job, but maybe I also pour my time and energy into other interesting and fulfilling pursuits. Chances are you’re reading this because you know me, so you probably know that running and adventuring are my go-to cup-filling activities. I love being outdoors and yet I still find myself centering work first. 

Of course, we need money to survive in this world so I’m not looking to disregard my career entirely! But I’m also guilty of putting things on hold (so to speak) until the weekend – when the “work week” is over. Like?! Every passing day is an invaluable day of our lives! Work week or no! I hate to say it but living in/near DC has made me very guilty of asking people “what do you do?” as an icebreaker. Bleh. Maybe a better question would be: “if you were unencumbered by the burdens of our capitalist society, how would you spend your time?” LOL. That’d get some interesting reactions. 

I want to spend my time and energy and attention going after goals and interests that are purely mine and purely out of love and fun. I think I generally do an okay job of this already but I am prepared to double down.

All this to say, I am practicing building and loving a full life removed from my job. And I am not allowing my (or anyone else’s) expectations of my career to affect my mood or life or feeling of purpose. Or at least that’s my intention. If you feel that way, I hope you make the time to do something you love tonight. Tomorrow. This weekend. 

We all deserve that.

Love,

Juliana